As for the “balanced” woman of “modern” life, being “restrained” about sex gives away the whole game to the likes of Ms Eden. The carnal side is never just a side. That is its nature: taking all, carnivorous of any other impulses. Hannibal Lecter would be similarly puzzled: How can you be a whole person without enjoying other people’s sides? Natural impulses are not self-justifying; self-justifying, however, is all too natural. Your post being one long exercise in self-admiration.

And as for your inability to enjoy caring for or sharing with others (while fully clothed and no one inside either’s lips) as much as sucking them off or being pumped, well, you speak volumes about yourself, and very little about the principles Ms. Eden lives by. Pitying her, clucking your tongue this whole post, is a mere series of baffled grunts emitted by someone who is outraged at a lifestyle so bizarre yet that actually makes Ms. Eden happy, and, by the effects of her writing, makes others happy. Her message in no way impinges on your romp through other people’s gonads, so it is curious why you lift her so high as a pariah. My hunch is that by showing how “pathetic” she is, you only enhance the gleam on your own ego. Grrrl power and all the rest. Congratulations for exulting in turning sex into a vessel of death: what can I get from sex, who can I et it from, how can I minimize damage to myself even if not to my “partner”, and how can I keep my uterus as impregnably unimpregnated as possible?

She still sucks.

If she’s like this Dawn chick, heaven help her. Hard to believe she wrote a book…a whole freakin’ book!… on how emotionally uptight she is.

Man, if we all did that, bookstores would be crammed to the gills in the self-help section!

I think I got about 7 bestsellers in me!

Uncle/Achtung!