Comments on: When the heart is a blank slate http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/ Love, sex, relationships, and self development for the fearless thinker. Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:42:37 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Florian http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-121 Florian Sun, 28 Jan 2007 22:15:43 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-121 Hi, I found your blog via google by accident and have to admit that youve a really interesting blog :-) Just saved your feed in my reader, have a nice day :) Hi,
I found your blog via google by accident and have to admit that youve a really interesting blog :-)
Just saved your feed in my reader, have a nice day :)

]]> By: Letting Go: The Perils Of The Conscious Heart « Luscious Life By Isis Kali http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-40 Letting Go: The Perils Of The Conscious Heart « Luscious Life By Isis Kali Sun, 07 Jan 2007 07:05:46 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-40 [...] When the heart is a blank slate [...] [...] When the heart is a blank slate [...]

]]> By: isiskali http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-32 isiskali Sun, 24 Dec 2006 20:36:19 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-32 *hugs to c33* Good for you. It's great that you made a conscious effort to use your pain in a positive fashion. That's wonderful!! *hugs to c33*

Good for you. It’s great that you made a conscious effort to use your pain in a positive fashion. That’s wonderful!!

]]> By: c33 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-29 c33 Sun, 24 Dec 2006 01:17:45 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-29 Thank you so much for your great insight and being able to put into words and into the light, the wonderful state of a quiet, centered heart. I have also noticed that I attract horrible, damaging people in my life when I am not centered. I tend to let my imagination fill in the blanks and believe everything a person tells me and twist it to fit in my little scenario. Last time I allowed an ugly frog into my life, I almost lost the will to live on, it was after the death of a parent and I was too emotionally weak to judge him by his actions. I could not understand why this emotional blow was hitting me so hard at a time when I couldn t have been more fragile, now I realize that it came at a time when the learning would impact me the most. I have made the conscious decision to select people in my life more carefully and know that I will never allow anyone to promise me the moon unless I have the certainty they have built a spaceship that has my name on it. Thank you so much for your great insight and being able to put into words and into the light, the wonderful state of a quiet, centered heart. I have also noticed that I attract horrible, damaging people in my life when I am not centered. I tend to let my imagination fill in the blanks and believe everything a person tells me and twist it to fit in my little scenario.
Last time I allowed an ugly frog into my life, I almost lost the will to live on, it was after the death of a parent and I was too emotionally weak to judge him by his actions.
I could not understand why this emotional blow was hitting me so hard at a time when I couldn t have been more fragile, now I realize that it came at a time when the learning would impact me the most. I have made the conscious decision to select people in my life more carefully and know that I will never allow anyone to promise me the moon unless I have the certainty they have built a spaceship that has my name on it.

]]> By: VynilRob http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-23 VynilRob Fri, 15 Dec 2006 14:40:12 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-23 Whoa. Once again you hit the proverbial nail on the head. Before I go on, this post reminded me of the time when I was married and I wanted to smash (her name here) in the worst way. You know the phrase: "If I wasn't tied down she'd be HIT!" Now that I actually have clearance...nothin'. Her Name Here is still bangin' and all that, but the urge is gone. Not even a "too late now" thang...just, gone. I won't lie, I still have some urges (as you acutely pointed out) but the need to get with that person is nowhere near as strong as it was a year ago. No, I didn't let how I looked slow me down mentally (if anything, it made me work that much harder)...I assumed I was just gettin' up there in age. Turns out it's what you wrote. Urges aside, it feels real good that I won't break down into a state of boo-hoos 'cause I can't get with someone, or to even HAVE to be with someone. I enjoy my own company thoroughly; as you also so eloquently stated, you can be alone and not be lonely. This is not to say I won't be tryin' to get with anyone down the line...just doin' *that* is so much fun!...it just won't be out of sheer desperation and need. Keep the lessons comin'. Uncle/Achtung. Whoa.

Once again you hit the proverbial nail on the head. Before I go on, this post reminded me of the time when I was married and I wanted to smash (her name here) in the worst way. You know the phrase: “If I wasn’t tied down she’d be HIT!” Now that I actually have clearance…nothin’. Her Name Here is still bangin’ and all that, but the urge is gone. Not even a “too late now” thang…just, gone.

I won’t lie, I still have some urges (as you acutely pointed out) but the need to get with that person is nowhere near as strong as it was a year ago. No, I didn’t let how I looked slow me down mentally (if anything, it made me work that much harder)…I assumed I was just gettin’ up there in age. Turns out it’s what you wrote. Urges aside, it feels real good that I won’t break down into a state of boo-hoos ’cause I can’t get with someone, or to even HAVE to be with someone. I enjoy my own company thoroughly; as you also so eloquently stated, you can be alone and not be lonely. This is not to say I won’t be tryin’ to get with anyone down the line…just doin’ *that* is so much fun!…it just won’t be out of sheer desperation and need.

Keep the lessons comin’.

Uncle/Achtung.

]]> By: Lonely wolves? - Personal Development for Smart People Forums http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-21 Lonely wolves? - Personal Development for Smart People Forums Fri, 15 Dec 2006 08:51:24 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/15/when-the-heart-is-a-blank-slate/#comment-21 [...] Heh. Funny. I just wrote a blog about that (sorry if the link is self-promoting, but I SWEAR it's exactly about just this thing). Get outta my head! I'm fine alone, but I'm fine with someone. Almost. I'm getting there. __________________ Join me, and live the Lush Life! Read my blog! [...] [...] Heh. Funny. I just wrote a blog about that (sorry if the link is self-promoting, but I SWEAR it’s exactly about just this thing). Get outta my head! I’m fine alone, but I’m fine with someone. Almost. I’m getting there. __________________ Join me, and live the Lush Life! Read my blog! [...]

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