Comments on: 41 Things, 12/11/06: Excuses And Thier Abuses http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/ Love, sex, relationships, and self development for the fearless thinker. Sun, 09 Nov 2008 05:42:37 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Luscious Life by Isis Kali » 41 Things, 12/2/2006: They Stay, They Go http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-166 Luscious Life by Isis Kali » 41 Things, 12/2/2006: They Stay, They Go Sat, 17 Mar 2007 04:41:28 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-166 [...] 41 Things: Excuses And Thier Abuses [...] [...] 41 Things: Excuses And Thier Abuses [...]

]]> By: Mihrimah http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-19 Mihrimah Wed, 13 Dec 2006 02:24:58 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-19 Once again honey, you have hit the nail on the head. You need to write a book. People need to hear your voice. This article smacks of the honest reality of Barbara DeAngelis. I loved it. I have wanted to put a fork in several of my exes' eyes. I identify with the enabler/martyr syndrome (recovering Catholic...working on it). Love, respect, compromise and equality are soooo important. I wish it for both of us in future relationships. And let me break my foot off in that Greek Ortho boy's ass for his disrespecting you! Thank you for your insights. Once again honey, you have hit the nail on the head. You need to write a book. People need to hear your voice. This article smacks of the honest reality of Barbara DeAngelis. I loved it. I have wanted to put a fork in several of my exes’ eyes. I identify with the enabler/martyr syndrome (recovering Catholic…working on it). Love, respect, compromise and equality are soooo important. I wish it for both of us in future relationships. And let me break my foot off in that Greek Ortho boy’s ass for his disrespecting you! Thank you for your insights.

]]> By: isiskali http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-18 isiskali Tue, 12 Dec 2006 23:05:54 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-18 Eeeeexcellent. A convert!!! :D I'm glad you're here, hon! I always think of you when I write! Eeeeexcellent. A convert!!! :D

I’m glad you’re here, hon! I always think of you when I write!

]]> By: VynilRob http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-17 VynilRob Tue, 12 Dec 2006 21:17:44 +0000 http://isiskali.wordpress.com/2006/12/11/41-things-excuses-and-thier-abuses/#comment-17 Marry me. Now. Seriously, this hit me from so many angles, on so many levels, I don't even know where to begin, but readin' all of this solidifies the choice I made a year ago, and that was to leave everything. Her, the house, all of it. Back then it was one of the most painful things I've done but in the long run it was one of the best things as well. I'm a year older and surprisingly a lot wiser. I know what needs to be done, and the main one is not to go back. No matter how promising it looks. This column was just an awesome read, from start to finish. I was definitely puttin' a lot of the points you made into practice before I read this, so seein' it in print from someone who's comin' at me with no fillers/no bullshit is refreshing, to say the least. Granted, a lot of this is gonna make me work even harder now, with no guarantee of success (you slavedriver, you). Should I grab that brass ring though, it's gonna be one of the sweetest victories I'll ever remember. And it will be because of solid advice like this. I think you've unwittingly created a Frankenstien here. Uncle/Achtung. Marry me. Now.

Seriously, this hit me from so many angles, on so many levels, I don’t even know where to begin, but readin’ all of this solidifies the choice I made a year ago, and that was to leave everything. Her, the house, all of it. Back then it was one of the most painful things I’ve done but in the long run it was one of the best things as well. I’m a year older and surprisingly a lot wiser. I know what needs to be done, and the main one is not to go back. No matter how promising it looks.

This column was just an awesome read, from start to finish. I was definitely puttin’ a lot of the points you made into practice before I read this, so seein’ it in print from someone who’s comin’ at me with no fillers/no bullshit is refreshing, to say the least. Granted, a lot of this is gonna make me work even harder now, with no guarantee of success (you slavedriver, you). Should I grab that brass ring though, it’s gonna be one of the sweetest victories I’ll ever remember. And it will be because of solid advice like this.

I think you’ve unwittingly created a Frankenstien here.

Uncle/Achtung.

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