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By: VynilRob

VynilRob — Sun, 03 Dec 2006 23:44:59 +0000

So, any advice you can impart on a 46-yr old male returning to the dating scene? Be brutally honest if you have to. I have the utmost respect for your comments and critques and I will take them seriously and constructively!

I really think you got something here!

Uncle/Achtung!

By: isiskali

isiskali — Sun, 03 Dec 2006 22:42:41 +0000

*blush!* Thank you, guys!

So much of successful dating…hell, successful LIVING, hinges on placing some kind of value on yourself. Realizing that those changes need to happen, though, isn’t even half the battle…it’s more like a quarter, because then, you have to put it into practice. That’s the hardest part, no?

By: Mihrimah

Mihrimah — Sun, 03 Dec 2006 20:57:49 +0000

OMG woman. You are wise for one so young. If he’s “just not that into you”, there is no point in “wasting the pretty”. Time to move on. My last lover (methinks you knew him) took me for granted, said he’d call, then didn’t, said he’d he be there, and wasn’t. A real Mr. Invisible and now he is invisible to me.Apparently, he was busy courting others throughout our “relationship”. I love to be courted too and have the full attention of my man. My ex was under the mistaken impression that he was “all that” and was looking for a little something-something on the side. Add a violent temper and that equals Loser. Too bad, so sad. I don’t know anyone who would wanna hit that. I am content holding out for the right one. No fixer-uppers for me anymore. It is so liberating not settling for anything less than I deserve. I have faith that the Right One and I will meet sooner or later. In the meantime, Girl Power rules the day!

By: VynilRob

VynilRob — Sun, 03 Dec 2006 11:23:58 +0000

Whoa…this was just..AWESOME! These were my instincts when I first started goin’ out after my seperation. Much as I hate to admit it, I’m a little more of Option B than I thought. Not to say I would out and out do those things but you truly hit it on the mark when you said your time is valuable and to play on that would not be right. That was pretty much my motto: if I ain’t got time to give her the attention she deserves, don’t lead her on, even if she’s feelin’ me a little. She’s attractive and you’d love to be with her, but she’s not a booty call. She’s fun to be around but she shouldn’t be hangin’ ’round the phone all day waitin’ for you to show up when you’re ready. readin’ this means I’ve really got to make more personal changes if I’m goin’ back out there in the dating world. If that means nothin’ comes of it, so be it. At least I know no one got hurt in the process, and that’s the important thing.

Again, this was just effin’ awesome!

Uncle/Achtung!